Attending networking events is like stepping into a whirlwind of positivity. Everyone speaks with such passion and enthusiasm about their businesses, sharing stories of success and innovation. But what happens when the event ends? Do you leave feeling invigorated, buoyed by the inspiring people you’ve met and the promising leads you’ve gathered? Or do you find yourself drained and dispirited?
Starting and running your own business is no easy feat. “Hard” doesn’t even begin to cover it. It’s a journey that’s often lonely, terrifying, and all-consuming. When we first dream up our business ideas, we’re brimming with passion, enthusiasm, and hope. It’s easy to overlook the harsh realities we might face. After all, we don’t know what we don’t know.
Maintaining strength and resilience when progress slows or plans go awry is challenging. Patience isn’t my strongest suit, and I often find myself frustrated by the lack of speed. This frustration can turn me into my own worst enemy, which is why cultivating a positive mindset is crucial. I lean on my friends and business confidants—people I trust and can be open with. Sometimes, this even involves a mini tantrum (stamping my feet can be surprisingly therapeutic) when things don’t go as planned. This kind of emotional release can be frequent in the early stages of a business because, remember, you don’t know what you don’t know.
Having strategies to support yourself during tough times is essential. Whether it’s a family member, a friend, or a business coach, sharing your frustrations can be incredibly freeing and insightful. Once you clear the emotional fog, you can see your next steps more clearly.
In York, as in many other places, there is a wealth of support available for small businesses. Do you have a Business Growth Manager at your local council? Mine has been invaluable, guiding me towards various support resources. The Federation of Small Businesses (FSB) is another fantastic organization, offering assistance with legal compliance, HR, health and safety, tax, crisis management, and business insurance. Additionally, I have a business coach, funded by the York council, who has been a tremendous support. If you don’t qualify for free support, many excellent business coaches are available for hire. Though they come at a cost, the benefits they provide can be immeasurable.
One of the roles I strive to play for my clients is that of a critical friend. I often see things more clearly in other people’s businesses (and lives) because I’m not emotionally involved. My goal is to help others the way my network helps me. I aim to assist my clients in offloading non-essential tasks and delegating work that can be handled by someone else. There’s nothing more satisfying to me than helping others succeed.
Navigating the world of entrepreneurship is tough, but with the right support and mindset, it’s a journey that can lead to incredible fulfilment and success.